I heard this analogy, and I think it comes from the Talmud, an ancient Jewish text.
It says that in nature and in your garden, whatever the rain falls on will grow. And I believe that the Talmud compares money to rain – so whatever money is spent on will grow.
As I considered that, I realized that your thoughts are like the rain.
Whatever you think about and focus on, will grow.
If you’re focusing on the positive, the possibilities, solutions, and opportunities, those are the things that will grow and multiply. If you’re focusing on your problems, stress, worries, and negative outcomes, those will flourish.
The problem is most people don’t realize that they can consciously direct their thoughts.
In many cases, it’s like they’re taking a watering can and literally watering the weeds that are invading their garden!
Have you ever had one of those days, when your alarm didn’t go off, so you overslept? Then you spilled coffee on your blouse and had to change, making you even later. Your unconscious thoughts might be something like, “Oh great, this is going to be just a banner day!”
(Laced with heavy sarcasm and snark.)
Then a jerk cut you off in traffic. And the day continues on the same trajectory.
Newsflash: Ma friend, you can choose your thoughts! You can direct and focus your thoughts so that you’re watering the amaryllis, the gardenias, and the jasmine.
One thing I’ve found to be a helpful thought is
“What else can go RIGHT?”
You might also like:
It’s Rotten, Stinky, and It Will Fuel and Fertilize Your Growth
The Best-Kept Secret of High Performing Teams
Lead Yourself and Your Team Out of the Land of Stuck
Jennifer Ledet, CSP, is a leadership consultant and professional speaker (with a hint of Cajun flavor) who equips leaders from the boardroom to the mailroom to improve employee engagement, teamwork, and communication. In her customized programs, leadership retreats, keynote presentations, and breakout sessions, she guides leaders to live and lead by choice, not chance.
