Hi Ya’ll, Jennifer Ledet here with quick tips for women leaders who want to live and lead by choice, not by chance.
Just like the changing seasons, life has its ups and downs. Trying to deny the season you’re in or fake it till you make it is a recipe for disaster.
It’s all about acknowledging the season you’re in, whether you’re knee-deep in diapers, juggling aging parents, or just trying to figure out what the next chapter of your life will look like.
And yes, even leaders need support and have their off days. It doesn’t mean you have to walk around like a grumpy Eeyore, but just be honest and keep it real.
When you try to deny that you’re in a tough season or pretend that you’re Polly Perfect, you serve no one. Ultimately, being transparent and honest will show people that you’re human too. And that will build trust with your team.
We’ve been sold this idea that women can have it all. Yeah, sure, we’ve made progress, but let’s not forget the catch:
You can have it ALL, just not all at the same time.
And let’s talk about this so-called “work/life balance.” Seriously, who came up with that nonsense? It’s like searching for a mythical creature that doesn’t exist.
Nature doesn’t have everything perfectly balanced all the time, so why should we? Life has its planting, growing, harvesting, and dormant seasons. Deal with it, people!
But here’s the deal: by being intentional and looking at the big picture, you can find workable options that align with your values. During this season of your life, you might lean into your work and career ambitions. In another season, you’ll lean into family and personal matters.
No need to bulldoze through life like a crazed bull in a china shop. Trust me, if you keep pushing yourself to do it all, all the time, your health will eventually flip you the middle finger.
So, next time you feel like forcing your way through life, remember that even Mother Nature knows better. Embrace the season you’re in and take a chill pill.
Whether videos resonate with you, blogs, vlogs, or newsletters in your inbox, you can find all my links and resources here. Remember, you always have a choice. YOU get to choose what you’ll grow by choosing your thoughts. I hope you’ll choose wisely.
Just a quick heads up… I’m working on my second book which will be specifically for women leaders and the title is Flourish or Flounder: Live and Lead by Choice, Not by Chance. I’m super excited about it and I hope you’ll pre-order your copy when that time comes.
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Jennifer Ledet, CSP, is a leadership consultant and professional speaker (with a hint of Cajun flavor) who equips leaders from the boardroom to the mailroom to improve employee engagement, teamwork, and communication. In her customized programs, leadership retreats, keynote presentations, and breakout sessions, she guides leaders to live and lead by choice, not chance.
